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What Girls Find Attractive in the Guys They Want

  • November 18, 2009 at 5:03 pm

Author: Alex Coulson

Wouldn’t it be great if you could crawl inside a woman’s head and know what she finds attractive in a guy? That kind of insider information could take you a very long way with any woman you wanted to date.

Most guys haven’t got a clue what women want. The great news is that women have been telling men all along what they want. Here’s a collection of six of the most popular things on the female desires list.

· Excitement

Everyone loves excitement. Boredom is… well a bore! :) If you can draw a woman out of her boredom you’ll automatically BE exciting to her. Add a little mystery to the mix and you have an explosive situation. Being mysterious causes her to do the hard imagination work. If you change what she imagines to something else exciting it just reinforces to her that you’re exciting beyond her expectations.

· Intelligence

Smart guys get it. Literally. Women have a left-right brain radar. They sense intelligence in the reasoning area and the emotional area of a guy. Don’t even try to hide it. They pick it up even when you’re in stealth mode. Women are disgusted by guys who can’t figure out how to feel and think the right way. In other words be the right guy internally and you’ll be the right guy, period!

· Self Confidence

This one aspect of who you are may very well be the most important. It’s like the headline in a newspaper. If women read it and it doesn’t interest them they never go any further. A man who is self confident can’t help but display it in his body language. He’ll be cool in social situations and in private situations as well. He can be depended upon, relied upon, and trusted to take charge. If you exude self confidence you’ll have trouble getting rid of women rather than trying to attract them.

· Sense of Humor

Laughter is the ultimate natural high for anyone wanting to be happy. Women love being happy so you must have a good sense of humor. Humor is like a virus. It’s infectious. Utilize humor the right way and you can say anything…with a laugh. By putting her at ease you can easily suggest things that wouldn’t be appropriate in a normal conversation. Insinuations and innuendos will naturally slide past her normal defenses and become something she considers without fear. Make her laugh and she’ll make you happy.

· Status

Women love leaders. (See the section on self confidence) Leaders take charge. They protect. They provide. While women want to see themselves as enlightened and no longer desiring security nothing could be further from the truth. If you’re a leader you display the qualities that prove you’re capable of keeping them emotionally and physically secure. This is a very high need on their list so you’ll be very high on their list.

· Style

How you look matters. If you’re not attractive (usually meaning well groomed) she won’t even take a second look at you. You have to stop and consider that she probably took quite some time to put together her look for you. If you haven’t shown the same respect and courtesy in this ‘small matter’ she’ll probably consider that this is how you are and who you are and won’t want anything do to with you.

About the Author:

Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

For more information and to claim access to Alex Coulson’s “5 Step System” Audio E-course for FREE (limited time only) head over to http://www.alexcoulson.com

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Guys: 2 Things You Need to Know Before You Pursue an Intimate Relationship With a Woman

  • November 16, 2009 at 5:45 pm

Author: Daniel Amis, Professional Matchmaker/ Relationship Expert

There may be a time where you’ll come across a woman who only wants a sexual relationship. Before you rush into one with her, there are a few things you need to consider.

Here are the two things you absolutely need to know before being intimate:

1. Feelings may start to develop. This can be very disastrous to the relationship. Since the relationship is built solely on intimacy, this alone can ruin your chances for another intimate encounter. If she’s intimate with you, she may have feelings for you anyway…at least sexually. If you are intimate with a woman who just want something sexual, then DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING MORE THAN THAT. If you try to express how you feel about her, or worse, push a relationship on her, she may decline.. It may also ruin your chances for any future intimate encounters.

2. She’s probably in a relationship. There’s probably a lack of intimacy that she’s experiencing in her relationship, so she looks elsewhere. Though she’s cheating, it may make sense to her to try to figure out a solution…especially if she has already expressed to her significant other the problem. What you need to do is decide if you really want to be with someone who’s already involved. Take into consideration that there are many possible outcomes in this situation…like her man may become more intimate with her so therefore she may cut you off.

If you feel like you can still handle a sexual relationship, then by all means, have one. But always remember what it is…just something sexual and nothing more. Take that into serious consideration.

About the Author:

Relationship Coach Daniel Amis has helped many people create the relationship of their dreams. He publishes monthly E-zines that’s inspiring, fun, and insightful. If you’re ready to get the love that you desire, then subscribe at www.relationshipadvice4you.com and get your FREE tips today!

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